Tuesday 15 December 2015

The True Beauty Of A Home 4



It’s a bright beautiful day looking so promising. Hope you are having a great day?

It’s good to have you here once again.
Yesterday I wrote on Plan and Planning with regards to family wears and dressing and I’m greatly fulfilled with the messages I have been receiving on that, since yesterday. Please, let us learn to use comment box because your comment could be what will change someone’s life for good. 

Today, we’ll be looking at Plan and Planning with respect to family menu.
Sometime this year, I went to speak to a group of men and women and our topic centered on family. In the course of teaching, I told them that five hundred naira can make a balanced diet for a family of 6 and there was confusion written on their faces, with loud murmur of disbelief from them. But after teaching them a particular menu and we calculated its cost, they were left in awe.

When we talk of good food – balanced diet for the family, most people believe that
it’s all about money but it’s not always the case. Many people spend so much preparing meals that will not benefit the consumers nutritionally. As a woman who is expected to be a homebuilder, how, what and when do you cook for your family? If you can sincerely answer that question, it will go a long way to reveal to you the things you do right or wrong and how to adjust. Are you one of those mothers that pack “white noodles (indomie)” as children’s lunch at school, from Monday to Friday, because “it’s cheaper and easier to cook”? Do you serve your family fried yam as breakfast, boiled yam as lunch and pounded yam as dinner because yam is the only foodstuff left in the store? Are you one of those women that run helter-skelter to borrow or buy pepper, salt, etc. when cooking? My dear reader, do not say, “It’s impossible! No woman can do that!” because I’m writing based on the result of my research. As a woman of the house, how do you stock up your store? Have you ever heard about KITCHEN BUDGET and what does it mean to you?
For you to be a woman you need to be at home, you must be familiar and in good terms with this beautiful woman called Mrs. KITCHEN BUDGET because she is quite reliable and she can keep secrets. (hehehehe! I’m writing from experience o!).  

Budget is money allocated for a particular purpose. Therefore, in a lay man’s language, kitchen budget is that particular money set aside for everything about kitchen- talk of food stuffs, fuel for cooking–kerosene/gas/firewood, etc. I always say that delicious and balanced meal actually begins with kitchen budget.
The importance of kitchen budget cannot be overemphasized. When you have kitchen budget, it acts as a check against impulsive buying. You know that moment, when you go shopping and beautiful set of cutleries, cooking pots, dinner set, etc. caught your attention and you go like, “I have enough money so I can also buy them”. After buying what you WANT but do not really NEED and it’s time to buy what you NEED, you will be looking for your money and thinking that “pick pocketers” have played fast one on you. But when you sit down at a corner to calculate what you have spent so far, you will find out that nobody stole your money but you actually spent your money on what you like and WANT but do not NEED. That is when an idea of buying just tubers of yam and potatoes instead of varieties of foodstuffs comes in, because you’re left with little or no money after buying the things that are not needed. (heheheheh! All the ladies in the house, I dey hail o! I’m actually writing from experience o).  Without kitchen budget, don’t ever be tempted to believing that you have enough money and can afford to buy anything GOOD you see in the market because you may end up starving your family o! Without budget, no amount of money is enough. Like my mentor always says, “Good things no dey finish for market”. Leave that GOOD thing you want but do not NEED  until when there is NEED for it.

How then can good and balanced diet start from kitchen budget? Keep a date with us tomorrow same venue as we discuss on that.

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