Look Before You Leap!

Some relationship can be so unhealthy that people involved need to wake up from their slumber, to do something very fast before it gets too late. Any relationship that is not preparing you for the future, any relationship that is distracting you from the future, any relationship that is not building you in any way, any relationship that keeps puncturing and deflating your dream, any relationship that takes you away from God is not just unhealthy but destructive. Ladies, any man who threatens to break up a relationship with you, just because you want to maintain sexual purity until you're married, please lose him and let him go!
Any man who uses his fist to talk to a lady is not a man and you need not waste your time with him. Real men talk to ladies with their mouth and not with their fist. A man who forms the habit of beating a lady when they are not married will NEVER stop when they are married. Ladies please fall in love with your senses intact. What in God's name are you still doing with that man who abuses you every now and then in the name of love? A man who loves and respects you can never use you as a punching bag. Besides, you need a man and not a boy to settle down in marriage. Any man who beats a woman at the slightest provocation is a boy and not a man.


Please and please, I beg you in God's name, you're too precious to be played with. God placed a priceless value on you, don't ever reduce that value by the man you associate with. Any man who believes that your dream ends in kitchen and bedroom has come to terminate your future. Sweetheart, you're a bundle of blessing to your generation, inside you is a Seed of Greatness that needs to be nurtured so that it will grow, blossom and bear wonderful and priceless fruits. God created you for a reason. Getting married and bearing children is part of the reason but not just the only reason. Deborah in the Bible was a loving wife, wonderful mother and a seasoned Judge. Please my dear, settling for being just only a wife and mother is another definition of TERMINATION OF DESTINY. You're created to be a virtuous woman and a virtuous woman is NEVER an idle woman. A virtuous woman is a multitask professional. She is a wonderful cook, a champion in bedroom, a home keeper and a star in her RULING DOMAIN. She is the best wife any husband can ever have, the best mother any child can ever ask for and a bundle of blessing to her generation. Who's that man that's limiting you? Who's that man that's plucking off your feather? Who's that man that's suppressing you? Who's that man that's telling you that vision is not meant for women? You still have an opportunity to think right. You still have an opportunity to make the right choice. You still have an opportunity to marry right because the worst nightmare is getting married to the wrong man where happiness and peace will elude you. You have a beautiful life designed by an awesome God, do not throw it to the dogs out of desperation. Any man that cannot respect you, your relationship and agreement with God, your future and of course your God-Given-Vision, please lose him and let him go for he's not meant for you! Men, please the first thing you MUST bear in mind before choosing a woman as a wife is that beauty is not the most important factor to consider in marriage. As a man, you need a help mate, you need a soul mate, a confidant, you need a woman who will be there for you when the road is rough and tough. Any woman who doesn't care how you make money but only cares on how to spend your money is not a good omen. Do not allow any woman to turn you into money dispensing machine! A woman who demands for money all the time from a man is quite degrading. A woman that spends time planning for a world-class wedding should also spend time to plan for a happy home. Have you even asked her what she is doing/intending to do for a living, or is she planning to be a liability to a man in the name of a wife? Any woman you intend to marry should be able to have a clue on how to run a home. She should be able to give you a clear picture of what the future looks like. She should have a well-defined goal. Life is too precious to be wasted carelessly. Involve God in whatever you do and when you meet the right man/woman you will know. Live an upright life and right people will be in your life. Just as the name goes, LIFE PARTNER is for a life time. Please look before you leap!

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