Reasons Why She Hasn't Accepted......

Hello gentle men in the house. It is your season. Last week we discussed on the possible "reasons why he hasn't proposed" and I believe that many of us learned a lot from the discussions we had. Today, we will be discussing on the possible "reasons why she hasn't accepted". There are times when a young man suffers rejection from a lady; it appears as a great shock, reason being that in worldly analysis, he's well to do. In fact such men are rated as every woman's dream. He's rich prince charming who has bagged several important certificates. In the real sense, every woman should run at his beck and call but this particular lady wouldn't just yield to his pleas. She did not only disappoint his expectations but verbally told him "no". What exactly could be the problem? Prince charming has seen hundreds of girls but there's something about this lady that keeps him captivated. So, what could be the problem? Why wouldn’t this lady yield?

Sometime last week, I updated my Facebook status with a short piece that said “Every man needs a mother, wife, girlfriend, concubine, mistress and blessed is the man who can find them all in one woman”. A lot of people reacted to the update. Some said it’s not possible to find the above in one woman, a particular man was asking where he can find such because he’s been waiting for her. Only a handful commented that it’s possible. The truth is that no human being on earth is perfect but another truth still remains that there still exist virtuous women, though not many. In as much as majority of men believe that with their money coated with arrogance, ill manner or any bad character they are living with, they can walk down the aisle with any woman of their choice unfortunately for them, few uncommon ladies out there are ever ready to prove to them that marriage goes beyond what they can see and that’s why an uncommon woman can tell such a man off without batting an eyelid. Men, if you desire to marry an uncommon woman, you must work on yourself to be an uncommon man. If you desire a good woman for a wife, you must work on yourself to be a good man for a husband. Do away with arrogance and never ever live with the feeling that with money, you can get ANYTHING at a snap of finger. Money doesn’t make a good husband but character does. Yes money is good. In fact money is very important but it cannot take the place of good character. Just like a woman needs to live with positive attitude and good character, so also should men. Any man that desires a good wife must have to work on himself first to be a good man. You must learn how to treat women. No matter what you must have heard about women, the wrong perception on women you must have fed your mind with, you must have to erase them off first. There are good and virtuous women who are ONLY available for good and uncommon men. Uncommon men are those men that know exactly why they are here on earth. They know the meaning of women and wife. They know that women are meant to be respected and taken care of. They know that women are not supposed to be seen as servants even when they choose to serve. Uncommon men know that the humility and submissiveness of a virtuous woman should not be taken for granted. Uncommon men have personal relationship with God and they are radiating God’s glory in all their dealings. They have eyes that can easily detect uncommon women. This set of men CAN see mother, wife, girlfriend, concubine, mistress, all in one woman and that’s why they can be blessed beyond measures. Dear gentle man, are you an uncommon man? As you talk and desire for a good wife, have you groomed yourself to be a good husband? That lady you’ve been dying to have in your arms but she has been given you “NO” for an answer even with your wealth and influence, have you ever thought of what could possibly be the reason? Ponder on this as we come your way again