Many years ago, a young teenage girl
had an accident while trying to swim in a pool. Unaware that this was an experience
that was going to change the course of her life forever, she ended up spending
about three months in the hospital for some series of surgeries. The most
painful part of that awful incident was not the accident, but that she left the
hospital as a quadriplegic (having lost the use of her two arms and legs), and
paralyzed from neck downwards. She said she had two choices then; either to end
her life, or to live. She chose to live. And she has lived more than forty
years since the accident.
She has lived a life of influence and
impact, making positive differences in the lives of people wherever she goes.
She is at once a painter and a writer of world renown. She is also highly
sought after as a speaker and radio host. She is the founder of the ministry,
Joni & friends – a ministry she established to offer support services and
financial aid to physically challenged people all over the world. Her name is
Joni Eareckson Tada.
What in the world do you think would
make a young teenage girl who has lost the use of almost every part of her body
choose to live? She must have sized up her odds. She could not have been
un-thoughtful of her severe limitations, seeing most girls of her age taking
countless trips to the movies, shopping malls and parties. Do you also wonder why
she did not wallow in self pity and disregard for her talents, to live a life
of dependence?
The answer can be found in some of
the words she spoke at a time: “I do not know what lies ahead. But I do know
who I am. I have a dream, and I know where I am going…” She saw life beyond
what happened to her because she knew her potential and her worth. She had a
dream and was determined to fulfill it against all odds.
If Joni can be this determined in
life, you and I whose hands and legs are intact and fit have no excuse for
living unfulfilled. After reading about Joni, I resolved never to allow
situations paralyze me. I promised myself to always outsmart situations by
taking advantage of them. I also started on the resolve to see opportunities in
every difficult situation.
No one
goes looking for challenges but when challenges come knocking, what you must do
is to look for God’s purpose in those
challenges. I am yet to see a living human being on earth without challenges.
Even when it seems your neighbor has it all, there is a unique challenge he is
battling with. The truth is that you may even be better than the people you
aspire to be like because God who does not make mistakes created you the best
way you can be and that is more reason why you should not wish to be someone else.
One of the biggest challenges man has is that he buries himself in his
challenges with negative attitudes that he lost concentration on what God has
for him. But the event in life that seems to be the most challenging also has
the potential to be the biggest break if maximally exploited.
Do not
dwell on what you do not have or what you have lost. Do not dwell on what as happened
to you. Concentrate on what you have and the future you can see.
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